How To Make Any Woman Obsess Over You (Without Spending Money on Her or Begging For Her Attention)

Dear Frustrated Brother,

Let’s be completely honest with each other.

You’ve done everything they told you to do. You’re considerate. You're caring. friendly to women. If you like a girl, you might send her data, buy her things, and you might even help her out when she’s in a tight spot.

You’re a genuine, solid, "nice guy."

But let me ask you a brutal question: Where has that niceness gotten you?

That same girl you're willing to spend your valuable money for free on will rush (yes, rush) to go and meet one bad boy who has never and will never spend a single kobo on her ... and God forbid, in order to get to his place, she might even collect the transport money from you!

The Deadly "Nice Guy" Lie You've Been Fed

Society, movies, and even women themselves have lied to you about what actually triggers attraction & loyalty in a woman. They told you that if you just show enough care, friendship, and love, a woman will eventually realize your worth and fall in love with you.

That is the biggest scam in modern relationships

Now, don't get me wrong, "niceness" is a good trait for keeping a relationship stable after she is already deeply attracted to you. But niceness will never trigger that initial attraction. In fact, when you start a relationship with niceness, her brain will automatically categorize you into one of three zones:

The Provider/Mumu: The guy she calls when she needs money or a favor.
The Invisible Man: The guy she respects, but would never, ever dream of sleeping with.
The Male 'Girlfriend' (this one is the worst): The guy she laments to & asks for advice when her heart is broken by a real man.

The truth of the matter is that when you act like a servant, you cannot blame her for treating you like a servant. Attraction is not something a woman chooses. Rather, attraction is an irresistible, hardwired, biological response that a woman automatically feels whenever a man behaves towards her in a certain way.

The good news? You don't need to be a multi-millionaire or a famous musician in order to get women deeply attracted to you. You just need to change your psychological blueprint.

The moment you flip the switch from the desperate "Nice Guy" to the grounded "Alpha Male" everything (and I mean everything) changes:

You stop chasing women, and they become the ones calling & "checking up on you" (asking you: "So where are you right now?", "Why is it so quiet where you are?", "Who is the lady talking in the background?").
They start worrying whenever they WhatsApp you, and you don't respond on time.
You stop being one of their options, and become their priority.

When you flip the switch from the desperate "Nice Guy" to grounded "Alpha", you become the man who sets the terms in ANY relationship you're in, rather than being a beggar who begs for any bit of time she can spare for you.

You see, up until today, you have been playing a losing game with women because you’ve been playing by the rules that the women themselves have set. And now time for you to change the game entirely.

Before I continue, let me tell you a bit about myself.

My name is James Akpan, and my close friends call me Player One.

I am that ugly guy you see with extremely beautiful women and you ask yourself, "What does this guy have that I don't?".

You see, I understand women. I know how to act towards them. I know how to push their buttons, And using this knowledge, I've dated models. I've dated Nollywood actresses. I've had girls take night buses from Abuja to Lagos, using their own money or money they collected from their male friends, just to come and cook food for me over the weekend - simply because I teased them that I missed their cooking (and of course, when they came, I tasted both their food and their bodies).

I'm going to cut through all the nonsense that you've been fed about women. If you find me offensive, please feel free to leave my website at any moment.

I am not here to make friends. I am here to show you EXACTLY how I do it.

My History

I remember back when I didn't have any understanding of the secrets I'm going to share with you. There was this girl at the university I loved. I took her places, bought her gifts, and was nice to her. I never got angry with her, neither did I raise objections to anything she said or wanted.

What did she do for me in return? She slept with 2 of my friends.

What did I do wrong? I asked myself.

I did everything my Aunts and Sisters told me to do to make a woman love me. I was nice ... always eager to please, constantly available to chat with her (even when I had better things I should have been doing), I walked her home from class & I never asked for SEX. I wanted her to know that I loved her for herself not for SEX -- yes, I was really that stupid.

Did YOU receive such advice?

Did it get you women?

This girl treated me with contempt, called me "fool" to my face, made fun of me to her friends, and spread a rumour that I was completely clueless when it came to 'bedroom matters'.

If you were in a campus community like me, wouldn't you change school? I tried but it didn't work out, so I had to endure the taunts for 2 TRYING Semesters.

I spent sleepless nights asking myself: How can she be so cruel?

My Friend, You've Been Lied To By People You Trusted

What if everything you thought you knew about women and dating is completely wrong?

What if the advice & opinions you've gotten have programmed you for failure with women?

Never, ever take relationship advice from women. I'm dead serious. Never take women serious when they dish out dating or relationship advice to you.

What do they say you do? Be nice to her, do this, don't that.

Do you know the smart thing you should do instead? Watch, study, and learn from the men that women chase, talk about, and cry over.

MY SEARCH, MY FINDINGS, MY REALIZATIONS, MY TRANSFORMATION

After my failed relationship, I tried dating another girl.

After a few weeks, she confessed that we should Just be Friends. That she doesn't 'feel it' for me.

CAN YOU IMAGINE?

After buying her things, sending her data whenever she asked, and taking her out almost every weekend. You can see how ruthless a girl can be when she doesn't feel deep attraction to you?

I later found out that this girl was sleeping with a coursemate that she had met through me. I nearly committed suicide from the shock. I was hopeless and really getting desperate.

Who could I turn to?

When A Man Is Truly Ready, The Solution Will Always Appear.

In order to find a solution to my problems with women, I went online.

I started searching desperately for a solution to my relationship problems. I bought online courses, ebooks, audios on how to handle women. I devoured several books on psychology (with emphasis on attraction and sex) that I spent hard cash to buy.

It also dawned on me that the fastest way to achieve anything was to learn from those who already KNEW IT. So I started making friends with men who knew women, men who had women flocking to them.

I bought ebooks & courses by foreign Pick-up-Artists who were masters of seduction (these are men that every single time they go to a restaurant, a mall, or a club, they'll bring back home a very beautiful, high-value girl within less than 3 hours of approaching that girl. And I'm talking about girls that are so attractive that other men are sometimes afraid to even look at them).

Gradually, I started to learn and understand why women acted the way they did towards men. I started to understand the exact kind of behaviour that attractive women unconsciously want from a man. I finally began to realize the way to behave towards women that would get them to feel strong & immediate attraction irregardless of whether I liked them or not.

Assimilating all this information revived me and filled me with a new confidence.

The very next chance I had, I put into practice some of the lessons I learnt. I was blown away by the RESULTS.

The next girl I dated couldn't get enough of me. I mean she took the whole thing to a frightening new level, she started showing up at my place unannounced to see if I had a girl with me, didn't want me to talk to other girls, & started stylishly trying to invite me home to meet her family.

At first it was fun, (and given my background/history with women back then, could you blame me), but soon I got tired of the whole thing and had to end the relationship before it consumed me.

Can you imagine me of back then telling a beautiful girl that I was no longer interested in the relationship? Truly, in this life: "no condition is permanent"!

My Quest To Master Seduction...

A NEW ME.

From then onwards, my confidence exploded. And since I knew my techniques worked on ALL women - I simply aimed for the best of them! I attracted and dated campus big girls & beauty-queens. And every single one of them was happy & grateful for the opportunity to finally be with the kind of man they unconsciously wanted to be with. And even after I moved on, some of them kept on calling me once in a while, just in case I wanted to come back.

Most of my friends became confused at the changes in me, and some of them became extremely jealous: how could I have this harem of very, v-e-r-y beautiful women doting on me, giving me sex-on-demand, being completely loyal to me, & buying me little gifts (today one girl will bring me a brand new shirt she saw in a boutique, tomorrow another one will call & ask for my shoe size), all while I carried on with other "more important things" in my life.

I mean for the first time in my life, getting SEX wasn't an issue, rather it was who do I call to come and be with me this Saturday?...And this will be YOUR experience by the time I am through with you.

Without planning to, I also DISCOVERED something else. When I tried to explain the SECRETS of my success to my friends, what worked and what didn't, they refused to believe me. Rather they attributed my success to luck rather than the techniques I tried teaching them.

But one of my closest friend listened.

His girl was giving him hell. Disrespecting him, always quarrelling with him. He had nothing to lose. After following my techniques, his relationship and sex-life exploded. The girlfriend fell hard for the NEW him (she fell so hard, she once spent nearly nearly an entire evening crying simply because he refused to pick her calls for 2 days).

This same girl that used to be publicly disrespectful towards him, now started cooking for him, washing his clothes, and keeping his apartment clean.

What did I teach him?

Will it help you too?

Can the same girl that's giving you 'shit' today, turn around and sing your praises tomorrow?

Yes! And she will.

I'm not telling you all these things to brag but to let you know it's absolutely possible to live out your dating/sexual fantasies, I mean if a guy like me, a virgin till the age of 22 can - YOU TOO CAN ... emphasis on the 'CAN'.

You may also be wondering why I want to reveal these SECRETS to you. Why don't I just keep my mouth shut and keep enjoying my life?

First, I'm retired from the game. One of the Sweets I mentioned earlier made me an offer I couldn't refuse, so I decided to settle down with her - and let me tell you, this girl worked to earn my love, and I'm going to teach YOU the very same techniques you'll use to make women work extra-hard both to win your love.

Secondly, I realized that I've accumulated knowledge that could be of serious benefit to lots of struggling men out there, why not share?

So after seeing lots of very good men either struggling to attract women or struggling to maintain relationships with women they like, I made a decision. I decided to compile everything I know about women, attraction & relationships into a manual. A manual that contains every single thing I've learnt about how to become the kind of man that women are attracted to and remain staunchly loyal to.

A manual that is a raw, step-by-step psychological blueprint that strips away the all the lies you have been fed, and hands you the exact keys to female psychology whether in Lagos, Abuja, Port Harcourt, or anywhere in Nigeria.

A manual that will show you how to rebuild your masculine confidence, and make women view you as a prize they need to win.

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"But Player One, Don't I Need a Lot of Money to Attract Girls in Nigeria?"

Let’s destroy this myth right now. Yes, money is great, and as an Alpha, you should always be chasing your financial and career goals. But we all know men with clean cars and deep pockets who still get cheated on, disrespected, and used as a human ATM. Why? Because they have money, but zero masculine frame.

Women don't obsess over your bank account; they obsess over how you make them feel. If you act weak, needy, and submissive, all the money in the world will only buy you her temporary presence, never her genuine attraction or loyalty. The Alpha Male System teaches you how to trigger that raw, biological attraction regardless of your current account balance.

It will teach you how to trigger the kind of intense, overpowering attraction & loyalty that will get a woman to bully one of her platonic male friends into giving her money, and then use that money to humbly come over & cook delicious food for you!

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